Saturday, September 26, 2009

Open Space @ NYWC

I'm in LA at the National Youth Worker's Convention and I want to write a couple random thoughts about a risky move YS just made today and how I believe it is the beginning of something new.

Open Space is exactly what the church needs.

I believe the future of the church is in gatherings that use Open Space, World Cafe and the like.

I won't try to explain exactly what it is, because you simply have to experience it to understand.

First, Organizations that use Open Space believe in the power and gifts of people. In this case, YS is risking their future, on the very people they serve not because it is flashy, or fancy, or trendy, or spectacular, but because it represents and embodies the very values, and hopes YS has for the church and youth ministry. It appears as if YS believes that the power for shaping the future, is not exclusively found in the hands of experts, (I'd suggest very little is in the hands of experts actually), and that the thousands of people attending the conventions have more collective wisdom, and insight than any of the best speakers, or seminar leaders in the world.

Ironically, this is risky, frankly because many youth pastors (and pastors) don't believe in themselves as much as YS believes in them. There are people who didn't attend the conference because they wanted to hear experts.

YS (and the publishing world) is partly to blame for this NEED for experts to give practical advice. For years they have graded their speakers and presenters on how practical they are. Practical advice from experts is deadly.

People need each other. People need community. People need insight from others. this is completely true. We all need guidance. But...

I'm going to be direct here.
People who NEED experts believe a lie. The Lie: That there is a right way to do ministry out there somewhere, I don't immediately know what it is, and if I can just find the answer, then my ministry will be okay. LIE. That when the experts come in and give you 5 easy and practical steps to.... (whatever) There's a lot of money made by this kind of thing. There isn't one way to do ministry. There isn't A way to do great ministry. There aren't 5 characteristics that must be true about your youth ministry. Youth Pastor after Youth Pastor that I meet with consulting feel the same thing. That their ministry SHOULD be something else. they come to me to find out what it is. What do I tell them?

Stop worrying about all the stuff you think you should be doing, because someone else does, or thinks you should, etc. Look around the halls of your church. Gather some people together who are committed to the mission of your church and ask, what are you passionate about. Whatever they say, That is what your church should do.

NEEDING EXPERTS is a convenient excuse not to take the responsibility that is yours as the youth pastor. If you NEED experts, it's because you are unwilling to own the responsibility for the ministry yourself.

Am I being to harsh?

The Open Space YS creates at their conventions is the start of what the church needs to be about.

If you thought it was a waste in LA and skipped it, you missed out.
If you are going to Cinci, or Atlanta don't miss this. It is kind of thing that will bring about the future of the church.

That is not hyperbole. It is real.

What do you think?

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Wednesday, September 23, 2009

National Youth Worker Convention

I'll be at NYWC in LA this weekend. Will I see you there?

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Tuesday, September 08, 2009

Ministry Today

An adapted section of Inside the Mind of Youth Pastors was used in an article on the Ministry Today website.

Check it out here.

Monday, September 07, 2009

Meet a Friend Monday: Todd Littleton

Monday's are for meeting new friends.

Today I want you to meet Todd Littleton. Todd is the Senior Pastor of Snow Hill Baptist Church in Tuttle, Oklahoma. Tuttle is just outside of Oklahoma City. Chances are you've never heard of Todd. Which is too bad, because this guy is brilliant. And he know's a lot of people you've heard of. It's amazing to me how a guy from Tuttle can talk theology and develop deep relationships with writers, artists and scholars from around the world. Todd was the first to redeem the Southern Baptist tribe in my eyes. Todd holds his doctorate from Southwestern in Fort Worth and works with a variety of seminary around the country. I've worked with him at Biblical Seminary for a total of 4 different youth ministry courses there. (Todd is so impressive that I've often hired him as a Riddle Group consultant.)

I met Todd 9 years ago in Minneapolis. I was on sabbatical from church jobs at the time, abstaining from a paycheck from a church and so I found myself on the sleeping on the floor of Spencer Burke and Brian McLaren's hotelroom. I was doing a seminar at the gathering and Spencer introduced me to "a guy from Oklahoma" who had an extra bed in his room. Todd and I have been friends since.

Add Todd to your blog list or invite him to spend time with your staff. You will be better for it.

Tuesday, September 01, 2009

The US Minatour Toture program

Success and Emotion

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